Although Ben will tell you he is 6 foot 1 inch, that measurement was many years ago! Still, he is taller than me and the designated reacher. And, like you, he cooks, as well as doing laundry, washing dishes, and caring for our furry children. I am, for now, the duster, floor-cleaner, and paycheck-earner. I always wonder how the household chores will be reallocated when and if I ever retire!
Neither of us is handy with any tools. I may have to keep working just to afford the services of our handyman who does everything from repairs to painting to light bulb changing (we have very high ceilings). Or, maybe Deb can move in 😊