Blessing someone’s heart is such a sweet Southern insult. Only another Southern would get that!!
I believe that high heels, particularly stilettos, are bad for backs, feet, and legs. Sooner or later, they get to you. With that said, if you are wearing heels now that you feel are comfortable, great. I just don’t understand women who wear heels and complain — ALL DAY LONG — usually slipping out of their shoes by 3:00, running around barefoot, hoping not to be seen!