I can't believe you haven't attended a bridal shower before now, Barb! Actually, I'm a tad jealous. Showers always feel like extreme obligations rather than joyous celebrations and bridal showers are the worst, especially considering what little chance marriages have of surviving past 5 years.
BTW, I got all the answers right but wish I was wrong on pink. When I think of pink for a wedding, I remember Steel Magnolias and Julia Roberts's Pepto Bismal pink wedding!!