I laughed heartily at this. I am your parents’ generation and totally do not get Kurt Cobain! But, I do remember when my father didn’t get the Beatles or the Stones.
Every generation has its music and artists. And that is as it should be.
I tried listening to the music you posted here and still don’t get it.
And, that is perfectly okay. I don’t need to. I just need to know it speaks to you.