If I may quote from one of my favorite romantic movies, You’ve Got Mail:
Don’t you think daisies are the happiest flower?
I would not be a daisy. I think I would be an abelmochus:
Or, perhaps, that is too delicate a flower for me. Maybe, a hibiscus is the right chose, which is similar to the abelmochus, but is heartier and more raucous in color and a great lover of heat.