My ex-son-in-law is a textbook narcissist. The damage he’s done to my daughter and their children is astounding. But, because there was no physical abuse and because he is charming and attractive, outsiders, including teachers at the children’s school, discount the damage, think my daughter should give him more chances, feel sorry for him. Thankfully, her judge understood narcissism and didn’t fall for his lies and grandiose self-promotion.