The dog photo is adorable!!!! Roz is a wise woman. Photos of wives and ex-wives in sleepwear - not a good idea.
Were you two dating in 1950?? That would be the only explanation for keeping your "sleepovers" a secret.
The only sharing of clothes with Ben that I did is his super cool purple and gray sweater that I loved more than any of his clothes. He was tired of it. Felt it was worn (he had it for 20 years, I think) and dumped it in the Goodwill box. I was horrified. Pulled it out and made it mine. My FAVORITE SWEATER! Guy sweaters are so much better than lady sweaters - thicker, warmer, roomier. And, CHEAPER! Same material, smaller size, and it will cost more because it's in the women's department.
Until that sweater, my favorite sweater was one I bought in JCP men's dept. Loved it. Didn't care what department it was it. Wore it for years until the yarn began unraveling. Even then, I was heartbroken to give it up.
FYI - men's pjs are better, too. More comfy and softer than women's. Ours tend to have lace and stiff stuff that is not comfortable at any time but, most particularly, when sleeping. And, CHEAPER!!