Wow, Kim, what an ordeal, but thankfully, your husband is getting the care he needs and probably needed for a long time. I completely understand as my husband has multiple chronic conditions. With him being hospitalized twice this year for a total of 11 days, I have also felt crushing anxiety and stress, although dealing with the doctors and hospitals have caused me more anxiety than Ben's actual health problems.
Feel free to email me if you ever need someone to listen who understands
dennettrm@gmail.com